September 7, 2018

My ideal man rejected me. I was heartbroken, devastated and full of regret. But was this a painful blessing in disguise?

I met him in the most unexpected of places. I wasn’t even looking to get married but there he was right in fro...

August 22, 2018

It’s that time of year again… argh! You’ve been dreading it. It happens the same time every year, the unavoidable wedding season. You receive invitations galore, all taking place in the space of a few weeks, and attending them mea...

July 6, 2018

It had finally happened! Just as I was about to give up on the long, painful and arduous search for ‘The One’, there he was, at last! Phew! I’d thought I’d be single forever… but that relief turned into complete and utter heartbre...

May 21, 2018

I thought being ready for marriage meant being twenty-something, reading a few books on marriage and attending courses at the local mosque. I thought I knew what it took to have a successful marriage, unlike those around me! I kne...

March 18, 2018

Whilst being single and looking for Mr Right, I had a synoptic checklist of what kind of person he must be, do and have.  Sensible right? Well, that’s what I thought! How else was a girl to know when she meets Mr Right? I just wan...

February 18, 2018

It’s nearly here already, Valentine’s Day and everywhere you will go – you know ‘love is in the air’…Eye roll. Before you know it, it’ll be wedding season again!  It’s yet another reminder of my single status! This time of year wa...

February 11, 2018

It’s starting to dawn on you how great your ex-husband really was…You just can’t believe you had that thought! You’re out on the dating scene trying to meet someone new, someone better, someone who sees you for the potential you a...

February 2, 2018

So you’ve done it! You’ve finally created your Muzmatch profile, and you are on your way to securing the deal and getting married but there’s one glitch – you have no idea how to fill in an on-line profile and stand out from the c...

January 2, 2018

So you’ve hatched a plan: this is the year you will get married and nothing’s going to get in the way. Well what if I told you, you will not get married this year… Eek! 

You say you’re totally and completely ready to get married, t...

December 1, 2017

Singles walk away from these one-to-ones (conversations) feeling completely underwhelmed. The brothers talk at the sisters, hoping something they said would connect with them. While the sisters’ preferred approach is a hostile and...

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